There are always two ways to think about ourselves:
We can find fault with everything about ourselves and our life as it is.
We can focus on the positive things about who we are and what we have accomplished.
I don't know why it is we choose to be so critical of who we are and where we are but for some reason it is human nature to have this habit. It is really up to us to change the way we think about ourselves and our lives.
- What if we chose to make a list of everything we have accomplished?
- What if we focused on our abilities?
- What if we focused on our strong points?
Sometimes it is better if we literally write down all the things that are great about ourselves. Everyone has so many good qualities if we just pay attention to them.
We must let go of the mistakes we feel we have made, the bad choices, the wrong path we may have taken. These are not where are focus should be because we are still going forward and still living so there is something positive about our lives.
Give yourself the credit you deserve and if you need to sit down every day and write down what you have accomplished, what positive things you had happen, and what you as a person excelled at. I am not talking just major things, I am talking about getting chores done, making conversation, being a friend, there are so many things when you start a list that will surprise you about yourself.
Take the time to focus on every positive thing about yourself and your life so that this becomes a great habit to continue.
Many Blessing to All
Sue
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