You Are Important!

Each person on this planet is one of a kind. There is no one person who is exactly alike. 

How great is that!

Each person is special with their own thoughts and feelings, their own way to live life and be who they are. 

• Take the time today to look at yourself in the most positive light.
• Take the time to realize that there is no one better than you are.
• Take the time to focus on all of the one of a kind aspects of yourself and your personality.

Celebrate everything good about you because there are so many facets of you that are outstanding.

We spend too much time finding fault with ourselves so I would challenge you today to do the opposite and start focusing on everything that is special about you.

Many Blessing to All

Sue 

Unclutter Your Mind

When we have a mind full of everything negative possible swirling around and keeping us stressed and anxious it is time to unclutter it for our own greater good.

If you are thinking constantly about several subjects that upset you then you are not living your life to the fullest because you then cannot see the positives all around you.

• What if you decided to just stop and clear your mind?
• What if you let go of the many things that you feel are wrong and relax?

The practice of clearing your mind is easy once you start the habit of doing so.

First just stop thinking about anything at all. Let all the thoughts just fall out of your head. Regulate your breathing to and even in and out rhythm.

Then take one thought that feels good that is happy and positive. Believe it or not you have many of those if you consciously look for them to use.

Just use your one happy thought for a bit and you will find that many more will follow if you let them so that you begin not only to think more positively but you feel so much better. Your breathing also helps to bring a calm and peaceful feeling.

• Why would we not want the best thoughts instead of the worst?
• Why would we want to feel anger and bitterness and unhappiness when we can choose the thoughts we think that bring us joy and peace?

It is all about habit so I would challenge everyone to change your habit about what you choose to think  so that you can feel the best you have ever felt.

Many Blessing to All

Sue

Focusing on the lack of anything is not helping a person ever.

Whether the thought of lack is financial, having a relationship, or anything that you think you are living without  the lack part is one of the most negative thought processes you can use. By shining a spotlight on these things we make them so big and so important they can become an obsession.

When we focus on the lack of anything we give way too much energy to what we feel is missing in our lives. We then are thinking only in the negative which does not help us to see life in a positive way.

There are so many positives to life if we just move out of the "lack of" thought process and make the effort to see what we do have that is right and how far we have come in our lives. 

• What if you made a list of everything you do have in your life to be grateful for?
• What if you decided that starting today you would be grateful for the things that are in your life that make you happy.

We do have so much to be grateful for but when we allow the idea of what is lacking to take over we lose sight of what is right in our lives. There is so much that is good and positive and joyful.

I would challenge you today to really take a look at what you have to be grateful for and feel the difference it makes when you truly see how good things are. Make sure to find even the smallest things to add to the list because those small things add up faster than the big ones do.

Many Blessings to All

Sue

Are you stuck in a loop of yesterdays?

Life is moving forward are you? It is a shame if instead a person is stuck in a point of time that is behind them but they keep reliving it over and over as if they can do, be, or have it all again.

This takes such a toll on a person because there are no do overs even though through our thoughts, we try to make it so. In fact every time you revisit the past you have a tendency to make it larger than it really was.

• What if we give ourselves a break and stop going back in time?
• What if we let go of something that does not exist anymore and look at what does?
• What if we look how far we have come from that point and what we have accomplished?

We are giving away precious moments of today by living in the past. Life is so short and in order to live it to the fullest we can't keep looking back or we will stumble over today without appreciating what there is in our lives to see.

There may be hurt or anger or unhappiness that we keep alive in our hearts and mind that does not help us to live a happy life. I would ask you why you would want to dwell on any of those things for a prolonged period of time as they hurt your beautiful spirit and the fact that I am sure you are seeking happiness in the here and now.

I would challenge all of you to let go of anything from your past that is keeping unhappiness alive and well in your thoughts and feelings. It is not hard to do if you decide that it was a blip on your screen of life and you are no where near where you used to be at that time in your life.

Many Blessing to All 

Sue